In an unhealthy relationship, there is a level of control that will outweigh any amount of love that you think exists.
By lowering your standards or not having any in place you already allow them the opportunity to play with your mind on a level that you could of never even fathomed.
If they are successful, they work to change your whole perception and see things from their view even if you don’t necessarily agree.
They program it into your mind to believe that you just can not go on without them… This makes you incapable of letting them go and meeting someone who is right for you
They manipulate and isolate you from your friends and family.
It can be something as simple as you saying good morning or asking for some sort of gesture of affection to your significant other and if they are in a mood that day, it will trigger something in them and they will make their anger visible shortly because they are so easily angered by the pettiest little things.
There is a lot more that goes into this act and there is also a bigger reason for all of their concocted drama.
This scene they’ve played out generally occurs because they get a kick out of blowing things out of proportion only to cause a scene to solidify their exit.
So basically their whole little Oscar-worthy performance was just a decoy (an exit strategy) to deceive you and go ghost for a few days, weeks, or months while they entertain another victim.
When they re-enter the scene (they alert your family, friends email or phone via call or text) they come back with reasons as to why they left by blaming it all on you.
He/she will usually say something like, “You got me upset and I needed to clear my head or time alone was necessary to figure out why you don’t love me.”
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