When an empath comes close to fake people, it is common for them to shut down their antenna as a form of protection. When people turn out to be judgemental and critical, the empath often will close down as a mark of protection.
Some may even stumble for words and one’s memory and thought process gets heavily stressed. There are various levels of fake behavior and the reasons for each, many.
Empathetic abilities are not always easy to pinpoint and why someone feels bad for you. Empaths are generally skilled observers, and they can understand things by someone’s body language. Most empaths are oversensitive.
Because empaths are sensitive, they often pick up subtle clues about what the other person thinks or feels. They also can penetrate through lies and identify the motivations and intentions of other people.
Here are the 3 different types of people that empaths feel uncomfortable with:
1)THE EGOCENTRIC BUNCH & THE AGGRESSIVE PEOPLE:
The egotistical types are the most difficult to get along with. People who are always in control often fail to understand others and see compassion. Everything becomes about them and that becomes a reality for facing all situations.
While empaths feel sorry for them, they know that being around these kinds of people is emotionally draining and painful in the long run. Empaths feel a lot of compassion for those in pain and have a different perspective on life.
Empaths find it hard to be around angry and aggressive people. He or she will pick on the vibes and notice the emotions. Spending time with such people in close physical proximity will leave them drained emotionally and distressed.
2)THE SUPERFICIAL AND FAKE GROUP OF PEOPLE:
Empaths are deep thinkers and love to understand the human condition closely. They find it dull to be around superficial people and don’t see any point in small talk.
They would like to get to know people and forge a strong connection with people interested not just at the superficial level. Superficiality is skin deep and most people have these as a lack of belief in themselves.
They exhibit these to stave off fear and ridicule, rejection and loss. While it is not the good or the bad they are looking for, empaths dislike this ‘not being the self’ or people pleasing syndrome. All they seek is the real ugly face and not the beautiful mask.
3)THE MANIPULATIVE AND OPPORTUNIST LOT:
An empaths soft heart often attracts manipulators to target them for their own gain. They try to take the opportunity of their deep empathy and connectedness.
Manipulative people often abuse the good nature of empaths and take advantage of their sympathy and compassion. But these manipulators often forget that empaths are sensors too.
When empaths come in contact with such manipulative and opportunists, they stay on guard the entire time and protect themselves from such abusers!